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Safety

A safe space for genuine connections. Here’s how to maintain that safety when you take your chats offline.

Keep the Conversation Safe

We monitor activity to help detect scammers. If you move to another app, that protection disappears. Keep chatting here where it’s secure.

Balance Openness with Caution

Deepfakes can fake warmth. Verify identity through consistent, verifiable details.

Protect Your Privacy

Never send explicit content. Sextortion criminals use it to threaten and control.

Choose Popular Spots

Public, well-lit areas like art galleries or coffee shops keep your first meeting safe.

Keep Someone Updated

Let a family member or friend know your plans before and after your date.

Stay Ready With Your Phone

Charge it fully and keep your important contacts saved and easy to reach.

Don’t Ride With Your Date

Always travel separately and keep your transport under your control.

Feel Good About Leaving

With a clear head, it’s easier to end the date if you’re not feeling it.

Keep It Safe and Separate

Always finish first meetings in public, never at a home address.

Enjoy Being You

Confidence and authenticity make dating fun — stay real and enjoy yourself.